Have you stopped to think about who you fight with the most?
Often there comes a time in your marriage or in your relationship when it seems that friction or fights abound too much. There are those who make a world of that because they see other couples in moments of leisure and they seem better than you. Or they have someone else around them who attracts them and they think, “with him or her everything would be better”.
But what you have to be aware of is that you don’t fight with someone who doesn’t share anything. You’re not going to have problems with someone with whom you only have a coffee or party one night. Problems arise with whom you have to make difficult or easy decisions, but there are many decisions that over the years they’re adding up. Especially since sometimes you will have accepted a word that you didn’t like without accepting it from the heart.
You don’t realize that if you changed partner you would end up having to make the same or similar decisions and similar problems would end up surfacing, with a difference, and that is that with this person who has crossed paths in your life you may not have set a good couple’s basis because you saw it as an escape from something you didn’t like in your relationship.
